You and I can choose to carry that grace to those in our lives and so be blessed in our obedience and willing participation with His grace.
Or, we can choose unforgiveness.
|Ethan and friends holding back the tide|
Unforgiveness can't stop someone from receiving God's grace, but it can stop us from enjoying the blessings that God has for us. Trust God to dole out grace to those He will.
And... if they are willing to receive it, rejoice with them. It may seem impossible right now, but think about it, how could someone receiving God's grace be a bad thing. It may not be fair, but the cross teaches us that fair isn't what we need or want. We all need grace.